Adventures

Seal Cove Auto Museum- Transportation and Women’s Suffrage

“To me, it was shocking that a government of men could look with such extreme contempt on a movement that was asking nothing except such a simple little thing as the right to vote.”-Alice Paul

One of the littler, out of the way stops we made on our great East Coast trip was to the Seal Cove Auto Museum, which was super fun. It’s in Seal Cove, Maine, on one of the islands that make up Acadia National Park. They are a smaller museum. I think the volunteers outnumbered people visiting by far, but everything was in really good order. Their main exhibit while we were there was how transportation, especially cars, really helped the Woman’s Suffrage movement. It was pretty humbling for me to see what women went through just to get the right to vote and I learned a lot of things that I hadn’t even heard about before. I thought I’d share some of the pictures and the info that was shared. Here’s the museum website if you would be interested in learning more as well.

https://www.sealcoveautomuseum.org/

They had a lot of research and some items from ladies involved in the Suffrage movement and also acknowledged the women left out of the Suffrage movement- namely BIPOC women, who it was thought would anger the men if they were included. Black and Native American women did not get the right to vote until way after white women got the right to vote, for example. Frances Harper was one of the Black Suffrage leaders at the time.

“I do not think the mere extension of the ballot a panacea for all the ills of our national life. What we need to-day is not simply more voters, but better voters.”-Frances Harper

This car was modeled after a boat! It’s made of teakwood and has brass fittings. It was for some fancy executive, but I forget which one at the moment.

This car was driven cross country by two women, Nell Richardson and Alice Burke, to gain support for the Women’s Suffrage Movement. They drove through rain, snow, got stuck in the mud on terrible roads, and a host of other issues. They were mostly met with happiness, but also sometimes gifts, including a cat that they named Saxon, for the car manufacturer. The roads were so bad, in fact, that when they were done with their tour, Alice Burke started campaigning for better roads! Here’s a short article from the National Park Service on the significance of this ride and why the cat was important. https://www.nps.gov/articles/womens-suffrage-and-the-cat.htm

“On the Road, April 9- ‘The very minute we stopped for gasoline, and were forced to give a demonstration of how our little car works. All the men wanted to see inside her, so we waited a while and let them explore to their hearts’ content. If you can’t win a man by oratory, you can by machinery, sometimes.'”- Alice Burke

It was so interesting to read about all this. It also made me extremely grateful for the women who came before me, as well as the strong women in my own family who’ve lived through adversity. I will definitely be doing more research for myself about this and many other things. I hope it inspires you do to do the same!

Simple Sundays

Simple Sunday- Woman’s Suffrage

“The young women of today, free to study, to speak, to write, to choose their occupation, should remember that every inch of this freedom was bought for them at a great price. It is for them to show their gratitude by helping onward the reforms of their own times, by spreading the light of freedom and of truth still wider. The debt that each generation owes to the past it must pay to the future.”-Abigail Scott Duniway, suffragist  1834-1915

”Life is a hard battle anyway. If we caught and sing a little as we fight the  good fight of freedom, it makes it all go easier. I will not allow my life’s light be determined by the darkness around me.”-Soujourner Truth

“If Congress refuse to listen to and grant what women ask, there is but one course left then to pursue. What is there left for women to do but to become the mothers of the future government?”― Victoria Claflin Woodhull

“The vote is the emblem of your equality, women of America, the guaranty of your liberty. That vote of yours has cost millions of dollars and the lives of thousands of women. Women have suffered agony of soul which you never can comprehend, that you and your daughters might inherit political freedom. That vote has been costly. Prize it! The vote is a power, a weapon of offense and defense, a prayer. Use it intelligently, conscientiously, prayerfully. Progress is calling to you to make no pause. Act!”― Carrie Catt

“So close is the bond between man and woman that you can not raise one without lifting the other. The world can not move ahead without woman’s sharing in the movement, and to help give a right impetus to that movement is woman’s highest privilege.”-Frances Harper

Simple Sundays

Simple Sunday- Anniversary Edition

“There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.”-Homer

“I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.”-Rita Rudner

“Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.”-Franz Schubert

“The critical period of matrimony is breakfast-time.”-A. P. Herbert

“Marriage is the alliance of two people, one of whom never remembers birthdays and the other who never forgets them.”-Ogden Nash

Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years.”- Simone Signoret

“People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.”― Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

“Love of music, of sunsets and sea; a liking for the same kind of people; political opinions that are not radically divergent; a similar stance as we look at the stars and think of the marvelous strangeness of the universe – these are what build a marriage. And it is never to be taken for granted.”― Madeleine L’Engle, Two-Part Invention: The Story of a Marriage

Simple Sundays

Simple Sunday- Random

“Who judges the judge who judges wrong?”
― Gail Carson Levine, Fairest

“Supposed I don’t want to redeem myself? Why should I fight to uphold the system that cast me out? I shall take pleasure in seeing it smashed.”
― Margaret Mitchell, Gone with the Wind

“We teach people how to remember, we never teach them how to grow.”
― Oscar Wilde, The Critic as Artist

“Being against evil doesn’t make you good. Tonight I was against it and then I was evil myself. I could feel it coming just like a tide… I just want to destroy them. But when you start taking pleasure in it you are awfully close to the thing you’re fighting.”
― Ernest Hemingway, Islands in the Stream

“History was full of the bones of good men who’d followed bad orders in the hope that they could soften the blow. Oh, yes, there were worse things they could do, but most of them began right where they started following bad orders.”
― Terry Pratchett, Jingo

“It is better to be taught to think critically than to be told on what to believe.”
― Christopher Paolini, Eldest

“I want my spirituality to rid me of hate, not give me reason for it.”
― Donald Miller, Blue Like Jazz: Nonreligious Thoughts on Christian Spirituality

Adventures · Gardening · Party Posts

Fairy Garden Party

Ready for some magic? I had a fairy garden party with some girlfriends a month or so ago and it went rather well, I think. I may have gone overboard with plants and containers, but that just meant that people could have more than one garden if they wanted to! Some of the plants were indoor plants and others were outdoor plants and I tried to get ones that I hadn’t been able to kill yet, or were marked as easy care or good for terrariums. Here’s what the table looked like. I apologize for the cut off end. I was attempting to take a pic and it was super duper sunny, so I couldn’t totally see.

For supplies, we had rocks, glass bead fillers, moss, gravel, and sand. We had just all purpose potting soil too for the actual dirt. I went to the thrift store to find containers and bought a few at other stores as well. I even got a mini bathtub from one of the craft stores that I love and I’m probably going to go back and get another one for me. The teapot is my friend’s that she brought. I used my tiered treat stand to display all the accessories and it made me so happy!

For accessories, I found little fairy garden items like bridges and tiny yoga frogs, mini furniture, and some mini fairy houses too. We had shells, rhinestones, and mirrors, and shiny rocks galore. We had some houses you could paint too, but I don’t think anyone painted one.

I found a variety of containers. The thrift store must have gotten a set of wedding table centerpieces in because they had about 6 of these really big glass vases that matched. You’ll see some of the other ones throughout the post. I only had the little ones on the table. We had a bunny yard ornament, left by the prior owners, and it had a broken bit in it. My friend T made the cutest and most charming terrarium with it! Some of the other odder containers were a lamp shade (far left, white round dish,) a mini bathtub, and a chipped mixing bowl.

My friend donated a bunch of aloe starts and I had a couple of philodendron and spiderwort plants that I had started in my office. I bought a couple of succulents, a pepperomia, a mini nerve plant, a croton, and a purple thing that looked super fun! There were some others just marked “Terrarium assortment.” Basically anything I thought I might not kill. Outdoor plants included vistas, marigolds, alyssum, lobelia, something named “Gnome Pink,” and a coleus.

I also made snacks, but tried to keep it under control, so we only had two homemade things- lemon ginger muffins, and Cathedral bars/fantasy bars. Recipes for those are here: https://www.momontimeout.com/5-minute-fantasy-bars-just-4-ingredients/

Muffins- https://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/lemon-yogurt-muffins/

I did switch out butter for oil because it was 7:30 AM and I didn’t have thawed butter or the will to go find it in the freezer. The muffins were a little overbaked, but they tasted good! The Cathedral bars were the stuff of dreams and now I want to make a pan again. I might get mobbed at work for it though, if I was nice enough to share. I did not take a picture of the snacks!

Here are some close ups of the terrariums. Some of these are from friends, as my phone overheated and got cranky. I hope you enjoy seeing them!

Simple Sundays

Simple (Song) Sunday

King of Anything- Sarah Barellis: https://youtu.be/eR7-AUmiNcA

You Will Be Found- from Dear Evan Hansen: https://youtu.be/mo1W4L_SPzw

Numb Little Bug- Em Beihold: https://youtu.be/9mVXPLlnSu4 TW: references mental health and suicidal ideation

Bloodywood- Dan dan: https://youtu.be/a65A626Ed20 TW: references sexual assault

Believer- Imagine Dragons/One Voice Children’s Choir https://youtu.be/FUQheX3PSnY

Sit Still, Look Pretty- Daya: https://youtu.be/uPHKkewD1G0

Simple Sundays

Simple Sunday- Animals

“If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans.”- James Herriot

“You can always tell about somebody by the way they put their hands on an animal.”-Betty White

“I want my children and my grandchildren to live in a world with clean air, pure drinking water, and an abundance of wildlife, so I’ve chosen to dedicate my life to wildlife conservation so I can make the world just a little bit better.”-Bindi Irwin

“My mother early on taught us to respect all animals, and I mean all animals – not just cats and dogs but rats and snakes and spiders and fish and wildlife, so I really grew up believing they are just like us and just as deserving of consideration.”-Joanna Lumley

“I find solace in animals. I have got a stray dog at home called Candy. I picked it up while I was waiting at the airport one day. I always wanted to have a ‘macho’ dog but got this sweet little thing instead.”-Randeep Hooda

Simple Sundays

Simple Sunday- Writing

If he wrote it, he could get rid of it. He had gotten rid of many things by writing them.”
― Ernest Hemingway

Late into the night I write and the pages of my notebook swell from all the words I’ve pressed onto them.
It almost feels like the more I bruise the page the quicker something inside me heals.”
― Elizabeth Acevedo, The Poet X

“You’re writing, you’re coasting, and you’re thinking, ‘This is the best thing I’ve ever written, and it’s coming so easily, and these characters are so great.’ You put it aside for whatever reason, and you open it up a week later and the characters have turned to cardboard and the book has completely fallen apart,” she says. “That’s the moment of truth for every writer: Can I go on from here and make this book into something? I think it separates the writers from the nonwriters. And I think it’s the reason a lot of people have that unfinished manuscript around the house, that albatross.”
― Jacqueline Woodson

“If you want to see the consequences of ideas, write a story. If you want to see the consequences of belief, write a story in which somebody is acting on the ideas or beliefs that she has. ”
― Charles Baxter

Learn to write by doing it. Read widely and wisely. Increase your word power. Find your own individual voice though practicing constantly. Go through the world with your eyes and ears open and learn to express that experience in words.”
― P.D. James, Advice to Writers: A Compendium of Quotes, Anecdotes, and Writerly Wisdom from a Dazzling Array of Literary Lights

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Simple Sunday- Bookish Quotes

“I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see.”-John Burroughs

“I have books I like very much, but I don’t think there are any books that everyone should read. I prefer a world in which some people read this, and others read that.”-Tara Westover

“Books have the same enemies as people: fire, humidity, animals, weather, and their own content.”-Paul Valery

“I still buy actual books. The smell, having it in your hands – there’s really no substitute.”-Nathan Fillion

“Books are funny little portable pieces of thought.”-Susan Sontag

“When you are reading about a book, you focus on the main character, of course. When you have something in common with them and connect with them, you remember the lessons they learned, and then you can apply them to your life. So you can live the best life you can.”-Marley Dias

Simple Sundays

Simple Sunday- Ladies

“I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat.”
Rebecca West

“Men often ask me, ‘Why are your female characters so paranoid?’ It’s not paranoia. It’s recognition of their situation.”
Margaret Atwood

“It’s important to teach our female youth that it’s OK to say, ‘Yes, I am good at this,’ and you don’t hold back.”
Simone Biles

“Remember, all men would be tyrants if they could. If particular care and attention is not paid to the ladies we are determined to forment a rebellion, and will not hold ourselves bound by any laws in which we have no voice, or representation.”
― Abigail Adams

“We are not great powers. But we are the light. Nobody can put us out. May all of you shine very bright and steady, today and always.”
― Ursula K. Le Guin